How to have a prostate orgasm – What is a prostate orgasm anyway?
Long overlooked by men - is the question of "How to have a prostate orgasm". Overlooked, mainly due to lack of information, prostate orgasms can be a source of great pleasure. The awesome sensations that can be derived from stimulation of the prostate gland are now being rediscovered.
The art of prostate stimulation to derive Prostate orgasms is not new, however. Traditional Chinese Medicine, Indian Tantra and Malay/Javanese Urut Batin techniques all incorporate some form of prostate stimulation.
To ensure the sexual pleasure of the ancient rulers, these techniques were also practiced in the royal courts of the east. More than just ensuring the rulers’ sexual pleasure. Production of offspring - especially male - and the survival of the Royal Lineage was the ultimate goal.
The prostate is richly supplied with nerve endings. Both in the innervation of the gland itself, as well as important nerves passing the gland, responsible for erections and ejaculations. This is the main reason why stimulation of the gland is so pleasurable. In fact, injury or Prostatectomy (partial or full removal of the gland) can affect male nerve function and hence erectile/ejaculation function.
Due to lack of scientific studies, the experience of having a prostate orgasm is subjective. One of the largest sources of information on this little known sensation is the commercially sanctioned forum of a prostate stimulator manufacturer Aneros. Surveys have shown that prostate orgasms can be up to 33% stronger and more pleasurable than traditional penile orgasms. A limited scientific study has also cited the fact that prostate orgasms can be strong, highly varied in nature and highly addictive.
How to have a prostate orgasm – Differences between a Traditional Orgasm and Prostate Orgasm
A prostate orgasm IS different from a traditional penile orgasm, no questions about it. As mentioned before, it can be addictive. Men have described a prostate orgasm as: "pure bliss," "ongoing orgasmic bliss," "lost all sense of time," "floating," "out of body," "thought i was going to pass out," "could not take anything more," "laughing and sobbing at the same time.".
Physically though, the experience varies among men. Most men will describe strong sensations emanating from the prostate, anorectal area. Sensations can include:
- Waves of anal quivering, with strong tingling sensations in the perineum, anus, prostate and rectum simultaneously.
- Tickling excited sensations in the abominal area with accompanying contractions of the abdominal muscles.
- Engorgement of the penis, and accompanying stronger erections.
- Anal contractions (Internal and External).
- Muscular contractions throughout the body.
- A flow or oozing of "precum" (Cowper's fluid).
Most importantly however, prostate orgasms are “dry”…. Ie without an accompanying ejaculation of semen. This is important as ejaculatory orgasms will result in a refractory period in a man, where a man loses his erection as well as interest in sex immediately after. Being able to experience a different form of orgasm, will allow a man to last longer in bed as a result … and experience multiple orgasms.
How to have a prostate orgasm – Stimulation of the Perineum
The perineum is the easiest point to stimulate the prostate as it is an external point on the body. It is a diamond shaped area between a man’s anus and his scrotum. This method of stimulation, is used in male enhancement methods like Urut Batin. Intensity of a prostate orgasm will be less from perineum stimulation. This is because the prostate is separated from the perineum by layers of tissue.
Image on Left - Perineum Stimulation From the "Urut Batin Step By Step Self-Massage E-Book"
How to have a prostate orgasm Method 1 - Massage through the perineum (On your own):
- Lay on your back or on a chair as pictured above
- Apply firm but gentle pressure on the perineum – you can choose to vary with tapping or circular motions
- Not many men will be able to do this – With one finger, insert into the anus and massager as per the following method described below. With another finger or thumb, gentally massage the perineum simultaneously.
- Use an external vibrator like a Magic Wand (vary it with a Silicone Pop Top for varying sensations)
How to have a prostate orgasm Method 2 - Massage through the perineum (partner assisted):
- Hold your hand like a fist and press it on your male partner’s perineum, with a kneading motion (like kneading dough)
- Combine the above with the following method described below, ie, if you have 1 (or more fingers inside his anus), you can simultaneously use your thumb to stimulate his perineum.
- Use an external vibrator like a Magic Wand (vary it with a Silicone Pop Top for varying sensations)
How to have a prostate orgasm – Manual Stimulation with Fingers
The most common way to reach the prostate is however through a man’s anus and rectum. This is how a doctor examines a man’s prostate gland. Stimulating the prostate this way is more effective. This is because the prostate is only separated from a finger/sex toy by the thin wall of the rectum here.
Many men however do have an aversion to the method. Many men feel anal stimulation is homosexual. This is purely psychological. A man does not become gay or be a latent homosexual, just because he enjoys prostate stimulation or anal play.
Strokes
- 1 – Use a “come hither” or come here (like the gesture you use with your fingers to get someone to come to you) motion.
- 2 – Tap gently on the prostate gland with your index finger
- 3 – Make circles, Big Circles; Small Circles or many small circular motions as your finger is in contact with the prostate through the rectal wall.
Vary the stroke types to give some variety
How to have a prostate orgasm Method 4 - Massage of the prostate through the anus/rectum (When Performing on another person):
- When some one is performing the massage on you or you are performing it on another person, there is greater choice of positions.
Positions
- 1: Have the subject lay on their back preferably (He may also want to push one of his knees up to his chest)
- 2: Have the subject on all fours (Hands and Knees)
- 3: Have the subject bent over a table or the edge of a bed
- The pad of the finger (where your fingerprints are) should face the same direction as your subject’s belly button
- Reach about 2-3 inches into the rectum (or when your 3rd knuckle cannot be pushed in further)
- The prostate will feel like a walnut sized and shaped object when you reach it.
- The subject should feel a deep sensation (not necessarily a pleasurable sensation, but should be “interesting”) once your finger reaches and touches the gland
- Important to note – the prostate is a delicate gland, Stroke It but DO NOT Poke it, best to use the finger pad rather than the tip.
Strokes
- 1 – Use a “come hither” or come here (like the gesture you use with your fingers to get someone to come to you) motion.
- 2 – Tap gently on the prostate gland with your index finger
- 3 – Make circles, Big Circles; Small Circles or many small circular motions as your finger is in contact with the prostate through the rectal wall.
Vary the stroke types to give some variety
How to have a prostate orgasm – Stimulation with a Toy
Ultimately massaging your own prostate or getting someone else to do it for you aren’t the most ideal options. For most men it will be an exercise in physical contortion to reach into their own rectum to access their prostate gland. Also not all men will have an understanding partner willing to stimulate them anally
Many men resort to tools or toys to assist them in a prostate massage. These tools run an entire gamut from drum sticks to specially designed toys tailored to the male anatomy. Please do not insert something as unconventional as a drum stick up your ass. Instead, use anal toys that are designed for this.
Above: The Aneros "Helix" Model
There is one tool though that we want to highlight here. Originally invented for medical relief reasons. Users soon reported orgasms from its use. Hence its repackaging as the sex toy Aneros.
Originally developed to relieve symptoms of Prostatitis and BPH (Benign Prostate Hyperplasia). Ailments that result in swelling or inflammation of the prostate gland and causing pain and discomfort to affected men. Both conventional and alternative health practitioners recognize Prostate Massage as a means to relieve these prostate symptoms. The inventor was aiming for a tool that would be able to help men with these symptoms to obtain relief without having to visit a doctor or alternative medicine practitioner … or having their partners do the massage. The resulting orgasms and bouts of pleasure experienced by users however, convinced the manufacterer to focus on the more lucrative adult toy market.
The Aneros works with the male anatomy in a very clever way. It provides the benefits of massage to the gland. Its design also pushes all the right pleasure buttons in a man as it stimulates the male g-spot – or p-spot aka the prostate gland.
How to have a prostate orgasm with the Aneros – External Stimulation through the perineum
The Aneros provides external stimulation to the prostate. (The bulbous head stimulates the gland internally.) The tab, which is in contact with the perineum, stimulates it externally As it works as a whole, this tab will move when the user contracts his anal sphincter and kegel muscles, stimulating it externally.
How to have a prostate orgasm with the Aneros – Internal Stimulation through the Anus/Rectum
Of course the most obvious feature of the Aneros prostate massager is its bulbous head, which fits into the rectum. The head helps to massage the prostate internally through the rectal wall lining. Movement of the anal sphincter and kegel movements will move the Aneros and massage the prostate and perineum simultaneously.
The Aneros is essentially a hands free tool for a man to massage his own prostate gland. No need to go to a doctor or alternative health practitioner or a masseur or partner. A man can experience the pleasures of prostate orgasm right in the privacy of his own bedroom at any time!
Left: Diagram of the Aneros Helix, inserted into a man's rectum (with tab resting on perineum)
